As I was spending quite a lot of time on Facebook as I usually do, scouring for things I miss in my custom news listings on Google, I saw little hype or excitement for the ruling one year ago Thursday (June 26th) of the strikedown of a key part of DOMA that paved the way for states one after another to strike down laws against same-sex marriage. Why was this? Why was there very little hype or excitement?
I made sure to remind people with a quick meme on The Secular Nerd’s Facebook page, but very few people were excited about it. I saw almost no news postings on Facebook. The trending topics were Ann Coulter’s rantings about soccer [Source] (it’s Salon, you know, the site that hates Atheists) and how un american you were if you were a fan of it, but that was about it! This got me thinking. Is it because it’s taken a year to only have 19 states that legalized it [Source]? Progress has never happened overnight. 19 states is a BIG fucking deal in one year. It took YEARS for women’s suffrage to end (end is debatable) [Source] and took YEARS to end discrimination (legally) against African Americans [Source]. So are we becoming complacent in our fight for marriage equality?
I don’t think so. But I’m an online activist. I push information out as quickly as I get it, and this anniversary was a HUGE THING that went almost completely unnoticed. I found a few sites [Source, Source, Source, etc] discussing it, but by no means was it a “In your face, this was a great victory we are all cheering for, even one year afterwards” kind of day. We did have another Supreme Court ruling that may have taken the thunder out of this anniversary with a pretty awful strike-down of protection of people seeking abortions or simply entering an abortion clinic [Source]. The vote was unanimous to rule about a Massachusetts law that created 35-foot buffer zones around entrances to abortion clinics, striking it down.
I would love to see more excitement, and more drive into this. It’s going to be a long fight, so grab your water bottle, your running shoes, and get ready to keep running. We are far from having real marriage equality in this country, but we’ve come a long way already. And that, is my two cents. – The Secular Nerd
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Last night, I created a GoFundMe funding page to help my wife and I with our cars AC. We live in the south and temperatures are only getting hotter as summer is upon us. Due to our medical conditions it is BRUTAL to go out, let alone drive in a car with no AC. I am a freelance programmer who makes their money contracting out to clients for affordable programming options. Earlier this year I lost my car due to defaulting on my bankruptcy so we had to buy a cheap affordable car to ensure I could still get to clients. We have been struggling the last year to make ends meet.
Well, less than 17 hours after I created it, our funding goal to replace it was met. I cried, no lie. We had overwhelming support to have it fixed. Thank you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, thank you. Those that donated, you are living proof that compassionate people exist in this world. To hold true to the rewards, I have sent each and everyone of you thank you’s and instructions on how to take advantage of what I offered in return for your donation.
These are the following people that have donated, and made our lives a lot easier in the struggles we have endured:
Because of those kind and compassionate individuals, we have secured the funds to replace the AC, and ensure that I can keep going this summer getting new clients and fulfilling clients obligations to go on-site.
It has been such a very long and hard campaign. Facebook ablaze every day with Romney’s antics, fact checks, and some good old fashioned poking fun pictures. Thank the flying spaghetti monster it’s all over. There were quite a few victories on the 6th, for a country divided in two. What does this mean though, for the red states?
My opinion on this, based on being in a red state (Arkansas), is that it’s time to either get with the program, or be left in the dark ages. Marijuana became legal for recreational use in Colorado and Washington last night, while medical Marijuana was blocked in the south (Arkansas) by people with pitch forks. Yes it’s an exaggeration, but I’d be lying if I said they didn’t have anything in their hand (the bible) while they made that choice to block medical marijuana from people who could greatly benefit from its uses.
A good friend and co-worker of mine has a daughter, who is going through the harsh lifestyle of treating cancer. The synthetic cannabis that she uses has been helping her get through it, in the ways that it can. If Marijuana was legal for medical purposes, it could of helped thousands of people dealing with glaucoma, cancer, and more. I wonder sometimes, if these people who are so greatly against it, are so blinded by their faith, that they forget about everyone else around them. I think a lot has to do with experience.
My good friend is religious, yet he strongly supports medical marijuana. Why? Because he’s compassionate. Because he’s living with the worry every night, for his daughters recovery. That’s just one man, and one person, out of thousands upon thousands of others every day, worried for their loved ones or friends. It’s almost in comparison to preventing people from getting flu shots, because X god will take care of those people. If it’s “his” will to take that person to heaven, then people accept that. Instead of preventing that person from getting sick in the first place, or treating the illness, people commit legal murder every day.
I stayed away from Facebook until Obama’s victory speech, because I was sick of the politics, sick of the bashing, sick of the worrying. It’s over now. We have four more years to stick with the plan, rebuild America, move it forward, and make red states realize that child abuse, legal murder, and bigotry has to go. I’m going back to my secular humanism side now, and dumping my militant tendencies since the election is over, and rational people got what the country needed. Now it’s time to focus locally.
As you have seen already, Reason In the Rock was a major success and played host to many amazing secular speakers. I was honored to take photos of the event for the website and was blown away by all the amazing people I met there. It was my first time to experience such an event and could not believe how much I’d been missing out on.
Since The Secular Nerd covered what happened at Reason in the Rock, I wanted to share with you how much it empowered me. What really hit me most was that a lot of the speakers had gone through what I myself had gone through. Jerry DeWitt and Teresa MacBaine’s stories really hit home because they too were recovering from religion like I had been and still am in certain aspects. My father, who is an overly religious man, had kept me in the dark for years with his preachy ways and forcing me to go to church. I did what most kids would do in that situation, I believed him. I went to church camps and and even a missionary trip to Arlington, TX for these people. I don’t think of it like a waste of time, just one of those mistakes you make in life that make you who you are.
JT Eberhard mentioned something that hit home with me about Columbine, and how Christian’s target their youth by telling them to say yes if it ever happened to them. When I was in my early teens I was still attending church at the time, and they showed this video of Christian youth groups speaking out about how they would say yes and so should you. I remember sitting there thinking, “Is this really what I would do? What I should do?”.
Of course now the answer is obvious, but it took me until the age of 17 to finally break away from my father. When Jerry talked to The Secular Nerd and I about Recovering From Religion I was so excited because I realized that I would finally get a chance to help those who also had gone through what I had and I can’t wait to share my story with them and help them to recover from religion.
Thank you everyone who came to Reason In the Rock and I am so glad to have met every one of you. Lauren was especially fun to hang out with! I can’t wait to become more involved and help others. See you all at Skepticon!
Reason In The Rock http://www.reasonintherock.org/
Reason In The Rock was already a huge success from the moment we started planning it. We just had to sit back and enjoy the ride. The Lineup was a monster lineup, and the only way it could of been even better, is if Richard Dawkins himself was in it.
Teresa MacBain kicked off the event with her history, how she was indoctrinated, things she encountered along the way that poked at her magical bubble surrounding her most of her life. It was a very insightful story into a skeptical ministers story. She, like any other skeptic had questions. Questions that others claimed was Satan’s way of manipulating her. She went through her story, even explaining the moment she felt she finally shed all faith from her.
Next up, Cindy Cooper, who gave a great presentation about Camp QuestOklahoma. I’ve had the pleasure of seeing her present at LogiCon earlier this year, so we were excited to see her give this presentation in Little Rock. Camp Quest represents a secular camp for kids, free of any indoctrination, persecution, etc, unlike the Boy Scouts. She was a little nervous on her presentation, but she works better with kids anyway!
Next up, right before lunch, the always exuberant former Pentecostal Pastor, Jerry DeWitt representing Recovering From Religion. If you have never had the chance to hear Jerry speak, it gives you goose bumps being in the same room as him. If the secular movement was a religion, I would seriously coin him the pope for us. He’s known nothing but being a Pastor almost all his life, so how he always presents himself, makes you feel like you are in church, but in an amazing way. His words are comforting, full of reason and not faith. His tone is sincere, and not filled with hate and lies like in church. If I had half the charisma this man had in public, who knows where I’d be!
He discussed a lot about his new book, Hope after Faith, which once it comes out, I’m buying ten of them. Keep an eye out for this book and buy one for everyone you know! After his speech, he had a few minutes, where he went into full blown pastor mode, used that pastor tone, and made the whole room laugh so hard. Below, is the video for this:
We broke for lunch after this, and I had to lead Seth Andrews, AronRa, Cindy Cooper, and a few others to our secret dinner for the VIP’s and speakers. We went to Stickyz, where the food wasn’t too bad. I had an embarrassing moment with Seth Andrews there, but I’m not going into details on that!
Mike Thom was next, discussing The National Atheist Party. He did amazingly well pinpointing the core of NAP. I am a member of the Arkansas NAP on the Technology and Science Committee. He didn’t bring any slides, but he definitely accomplished what he sat out to do.
AronRa was next. To be honest, he didn’t quite have the oomph that I saw at LogiCon this year with his presentation, but it’s always great to see him. He discussed a lot about his debates, the facts of what Evolution has, the lack of facts Creationism has, and really hit home with the issues we face with the secular movement.
Lauren Lane… If there was ever a person you needed to have, to get everyone in a great mood, explain Skepticon to people who don’t know what it is, and feel great about speaking out… she’s it. Just her personality alone, made me want to go to Skepticon (Even though I already had my hotel reserved for That Heathen Girl, and I). The after party with her was a lot of laughs. Fun fact: She loved Banana Bread beer.
JT Eberhard, of WWJTD had an amazing, full of emotion presentation. You can tell how passionate he feels writing, just by watching him present once. I almost cried when he got emotional, talking about the stupid, irrational things parents do to their kids with religion. If you don’t follow what he writes about, go to his blog now… catch up… This man is a must see at Skepticon. After his presentation, I saw his desktop, and when he passed, I asked him “Where’s your World of Warcraft Icon?”. He looked at me and said “World of Warcraft is for losers, Guild Wars 2 is where it’s at!”. I laughed so hard. Sorry JT, I have to disagree with you on something 😛
Seth Andrews, of The Thinking Atheist was the Key note speaker. I had no idea of most of his past, until he presented it to us. His voice really is of a DJ’s voice, and his words are very carefully chosen, through reason. He has a very interesting feel to him, when you are in the same room as him. I can’t quite explain it. He spoke a lot about his past as a Christian Radio DJ, the moments when he finally shed his faith, and gave an overall great presentation.
Overall, Reason In The Rock was a huge success, and I am so proud of the fact that I helped make it happen. I’ve come out of it with different, new creative ideas on some of my projects I am working on, and I am very glad to have met some new movers and shakers, catch up with some already known ones, and happy that everyone had nothing but positive things to say about the experience.
Thanks to That Heathen Girl, for the amazing photos she took! I’m so proud of her! You can view them all at the Reason In The Rock Facebook Page
Reason in the Rock is rapidly approaching in the bible belt (October 27th in Little Rock, AR), and I’m very proud to have been a part of it all. From the gatherings in a local pub, to members houses, it’s been a roller coaster of fun, stress, excitement, and determination.
I am a member of Arkansas Society of Freethinkers, based in Little Rock, Ar. A group dedicated to spreading the good word of logic, reason, and critical thinking. Being that I am on the Internet Committee for it, I have had the amazing opportunity to help spread the word for RITR, from making the website, to handling the majority of the functions for the Facebook Page.
From Seth Andrews (The Thinking Atheist) to Jerry DeWitt, to AronRa… this event is going to be so jam packed with awesomeness, that words can’t even begin to describe how awesome Saturday will be. I’ve met Jerry and AronRa before, and let me tell you, they electrify the room.
Speaking of room, unfortunately this year it will be a rather small room in the Library, with about 200 people max that will fit in there, and seating for 150. Next year, the word through the grapevine is that we will seek a bigger venue. Reason In The Rock will continue on throughout the years, getting bigger and better every year. I will continue to ride that roller coaster, because it’s worth it. Every bit of it.
Recently though, it’s gotten some publicity from a local TV station (KARK 4). Let me tell you, their Facebook comments were set ablaze with angry Christians. Whatever happened to love thy neighbor and all that stuff? It goes out the window whenever you don’t believe in their god, that’s for sure. A lot of lax religious people did pipe in though, and pointed out the irony of the angry god-fearing, god-loving people. Those are the religious people I can respect and tolerate.
With RITR less than a week away now, it’s been struggling to gather enough donations to fund all the expenses it requires, to host all the wonderful speakers coming. I’m hoping to try to improve the visibility of RITR a pinch more, in the hopes that there are people out there who may not necessarily be able to attend, but just love donating to the secular cause. Visit the site at http://www.reasonintherock.org/ to donate, and make sure we show people we aren’t going anywhere!
Rape and abortion are subject matters that most people avoid talking about. It’s one of those moral things that people are afraid of speaking out about for fear of persecution or a lecture.
First, let me paint you a picture. Imagine that you’re a woman, and you have just been violently attacked and raped. You go to the hospital to get examined, police are asking you questions, and you go home upset and feeling completely dirty and violated. Let’s say about a week later, after your work has been suffering because you can’t stop thinking about what happened, you find out you’re pregnant.
Now, regardless of your religion and background, would you really think that God had blessed you with a child?
Sharon Barnes, a high ranking republican, was quoted by the New York Times as saying:
“Abortion is never an option.”
“If God has chosen to bless this person [the rape victim] with a life, you don’t kill it.”
This was pretty much all she said on the matter. She may not have wanted to elaborate because she didn’t want to explain what the woman who had been raped is supposed to do for the next nine months. Sure she could give it up for adoption, but would you really want to carry around a baby you never wanted in the first place?
“This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness.” – Dalai Lama
What if all the religions sacrificed the need to build monuments and temples to their faith and instead built schools, houses, even hospitals. If they instead used kindness to their fellow man instead of living in fear of some unknown entity. Helping their fellow man because they care, not out of fear of some unknown entity. Not to say I condemn them for their beliefs, because I’m just not that kind of person. I live in the bible belt, and there can be up to 10 churches in one town around here. That’s just way too much! If they used that money to help the community instead of building fancier and fancier churches, they could help their fellow man.
I’m That Heathen Girl, and I figured since the Secular Nerd posted such a thorough opening post I’d introduce myself.
You can check out our bio’s to learn more about us. We will also have links to our personal sites at a later date.
The kind of posts you can look forward to from me are going to be the entertainment reviews. Some of my nerdy points of interest are: – Books & Movies – Graphic Design & Photography – PC Gaming
Welcome to the site and enjoy! – That Heathen Girl
The Secular Nerd said “let there be nerdy reasoning” and so it began…
We are extremely thrilled to start what is going to be a very exciting journey into the world of secular nerds. What are secular nerds you ask? Let’s explore these two words in detail, shall we?
1. of or pertaining to worldly things or to things that are not regarded as
religious, spiritual, or sacred; temporal: secularinterests.
2. not pertaining to or connected with religion ( opposed to sacred): secular music.
3. (of education, a school, etc.) concerned with non religious subjects.
4. (of members of the clergy) not belonging to a religious order;not bound
by monastic vows ( opposed to regular).
5. occurring or celebrated once in an age or century: the secular games of Rome.
[nurd] noun Slang .
1. a stupid, irritating, ineffectual, or unattractive person.
2. an intelligent but single-minded person obsessed with a nonsocial hobby or pursuit: a computer nerd.
Our first word “secular”, is very important to many people. It is the pursuit of a world not connected with religion. We live in a society that’s focused on many different agendas. The pushing of a religious agenda is one huge conglomerate of many sub agendas, meaning there are many different religions, and many different interpretations of their religious dogma. The forcing of these many different religious beliefs in our world has caused not only wars, but skewed day to day habits that infringe on many peoples way of life.
You might be wondering where I’m going with my take on this. It’s simple; get religion out of politics, government, and public places. Don’t get me wrong when I say that though. I consider myself a secular humanist. I believe people are free to believe whatever they wish to believe, but I don’t want your beliefs interfering with my day to day life, or that of humanity as a whole. One very bright, shining, and painful example of what I mean, is marriage equality. The term used a lot against marriage equality, is “the sanctity of marriage must be upheld. It is a union of one man, and one woman”.
Let’s look at the word “sanctity” before you claim that religion has nothing to do with marriage equality.
2. sacred or hallowed character: the inviolable sanctity of the temple.
3. a sacred thing.
Let’s talk about “the sanctity of marriage” for a moment. Marriages between one man and one woman happen everyday. They also divorce everyday. What happened to the sacred oath they have taken? Till death do you part, right? People divorce all the time, yet there is no war against divorce lawyers. The war is against what peoples beliefs are. In a secular government, you would have none of this. We would already have marriage equality. We, however, do not live in a secular world, we do not have a secular government, and we have the religious agendas to thank for this.
The above, is what you can expect on the secular side of this website. It won’t always be “militant”, but it sure will be blunt, and straight to the point. I am a nerd which embraces many of the “nerdy” genres. Let’s look at them in a fancy bullet list!
Table-top Role-Playing (Dungeons and Dragons, White Wolf’s World of Darkness, etc)
Collectible Card Games (Magic: The Gathering, Pokemon, etc)
MMO’s (World of Warcraft, Star Wars, etc)
Computer Strategy Games (Starcraft, Command and Conquer, etc)
Social Network Marketing
Live Action Role-Play (Vampire: The Masquerade, Dagorhir, etc)
Star Trek AND Star Wars fanatic
When it comes to any of these topics, I become an elitist monster. I’m very passionate about these topics, but I also enjoy a good clean friendly debate. Why, you may ask, did I list my hobbies and skills? Because those are the topics I will discuss, along with a secular twist (but not always).